{"id":991,"date":"2013-03-07T10:00:52","date_gmt":"2013-03-07T10:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/?p=991"},"modified":"2013-04-06T10:08:06","modified_gmt":"2013-04-06T10:08:06","slug":"end-a-friends-with-benefits-situation-before-it-breaks-your-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/archives\/991","title":{"rendered":"End a Friends-With-Benefits Situation Before it Breaks Your Heart"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"3ff8ec78-e028-4bd2-8511-125222fa9a38\"<\/a>Have you ever felt the desperate<\/a> need to end a friends-with-benefits situation with a guy? Are you feeling more deeply in love with him every time you have sex, but he seems to feel nothing for you? Are you getting more and more desperate for his affection with each passing day? If you\u2019re nodding to any of these questions, then the answer is clear \u2014 you\u2019ll need to learn how to end a friends-with-benefits situation fast.<\/p>\n

Being friends-with-benefits with a guy can be great in the beginning, since guiltless sex is always fun. But women tend to develop emotional attachments to the men they have sex with, even if they\u2019ve decided not to get too involved with each other. This is where the problem begins.<\/p>\n

Men by nature have no problem being in this situation with a woman \u2014 some men may even have more than one friend-with-benefits. They don\u2019t feel emotionally involved when they have sex with a woman in situations like these. So the more you stay friends-with-benefits with a guy, the more dangerous the situation becomes for you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to end a friends-with-benefits situation quickly when you feel like falling in love with him, but at the same time know he\u2019ll never return that love. We all know it\u2019s not going to work out, so why force the issue?<\/p>\n

So when ending this kind of toxic relationship, remember these three words: “Just say no.”<\/p>\n

Learn not to pick up his phone calls or reply to his e-mails and text messages. Politely decline any invitations to dinner or coffee. Simply don\u2019t make yourself available for him and instead focus on rebuilding your fragile ego from the ground up.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s never easy to get over a relationship you had so much hope for, but just remind yourself that you\u2019re doing the best thing for both of you by ending things. Meeting new friends, keeping yourself busy, and concentrating on other aspects of your life can make it easier to end a friends-with-benefits situation. Good luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever felt the desperate need to end a friends-with-benefits situation with a guy? Are you feeling more deeply in love with him every time you have sex, but he seems to feel nothing for you? Are you getting more and more desperate for his affection with each passing day? If you\u2019re nodding to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[6],"tags":[52,163,60],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/991"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=991"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/991\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandaretreats.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}